Gay, Lesbian,
and Bisexual elders are a strength within our community
| Lesbian,
gay, and bisexual elders are a strength within our community
yet there are few, if any, positive images that accurately reflect
their lives. More common are lonely and depressed images that
do not truly portray the diversity and resilience of the lesbian,
gay and bisexual elder community. Their unique psychosocial
and health needs are often |
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overlooked by both the
elder service network and their wider lesbian, gay and bisexual
community.
As a result of coming
of age during a time of intense bigotry, lesbian, gay, and bisexual
elders have learned by default to protect their identity and privacy.
As they enter their elder years, the resulting independence may
be both advantageous and detrimental; it can enhance their sense
of self-reliance and their ability to negotiate challenges, but
can also serve to further isolate them from community and support
services. Due to legal and social marginalization, the estimated
four million lesbian, gay, and bisexual elders in the US are frequently
overlooked by human service providers Lesbian, gay, and bisexual
seniors share many of the same concerns as all elders They face
discrimination due to ageism and homophobia from society in areas
such as financial benefits, housing, and healthcare. Lesbian, gay,
and bisexual elders may lack the financial security provided by
a spouse's pension, and other such benefits offered to heterosexual
couples due to the inequalities inherent in the legal system. Elder
lesbians, gay men, and bisexual may not access mainstream elderly
programs because of a lifelong distrust of organized services. Limited
options exist for same sex elderly couples within independent and
assisted living environments. The loss of a long term same sex partner
results in the same feelings as the loss of a heterosexual partner,
but is not recognized by societyThis can lead to increased isolation
and depression. The delivery of appropriate health services may
be jeopardized by the fact that most lesbian, gay, and bisexual
elders are not "out" to their providers. Furthermore, their past
experience with health professionals may have been extremely negative
in the context of trying to be "cured" by their homosexuality.
Provide training and staff
education on aging within the lesbian, gay, and bisexual community
Materials specifically addressing the needs of lesbian, gay and bisexual
elders should be available at health and social centers that serve
elders and ones that serve lesbian, gay and bisexual community Do
not presume that all elders are heterosexual, Use inclusive language
such as 'partner' Routinely offer to include the individual's self-identified
support system in consultations.
| Am Tikva
Brookline, MA, 617-926-2536 |
| Lesbian and Gay
Aging Issues Network (LGAIN), ASA, San Francisco, CA, 415-974-9600 |
| Daughters of Bilitis
Cambridge, MA, 617-661-3633 |
| Dignity, Boston,
MA, 617-421-1915 |
| Fenway Community
Health Center, Boston, MA, 617-267-0900 |
| 40 Plus Lesbians,
617-599-4472 |
| Gay and Lesbian
Helpline 617-267-9001 |
| Little Brothers-Friends
of the Elderly, Boston, MA, 617-451-2404 |
| Match-Up Interfaith
Volunteers, Boston, MA, 617-536-3557 |
| Older Lesbian Energy
(OLE), 617 393-8963, 508-875-1723 |
| Prime Timers of
Boston, Boston, MA, 617-338-5305 |
| Senior Action in
a Gay Environment (SAGE), New York, NY, 212-741-2247 |
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